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The Forgiveness Protocol: How to Apologize When You Have Hurt or Harmed Another

April 6, 2021

Note: I discovered this forgiveness protocol from an online comment from Kaitlin Curtice. I think it’s a really good process for working through apologies and making amends when we’ve harmed others. The author has made it public domain and asked people to share it widely, so I’m posting it here in the hopes it helps you as well. The Forgiveness Protocol  by Judith Eve Lipton M.D. for Psychology Today Say you are sorry. Make an inventory of how your behavior might have hurt or harmed . . .

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Life Lately

April 5, 2021

  View this post on Instagram   A post shared by Kristen Howerton (@kristenhowerton) View this post on Instagram   A post shared by Kristen Howerton (@kristenhowerton) Today’s remote school location is *chef’s kiss* Getting our zen on in Muir Woods We are doing remote school and work this week via HomeExchange - we are . . .

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Life Lately

March 29, 2021

Touristing When you bought the citypass but they just want to skate under a bridge ... With three in high school next year I guess college tours are a part of our travel plans now. We tour City College SF and Berkeley today. They are both a ways outside of my “two hour radius from home” rule for college but I’m starting to get the feeling they are going to ignore me on that one. A mom can try ... It's launch day for my dear friend @jenhatmaker’s book Simple and Free. This book was . . .

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· Family, Life Lately

Life Lately

February 15, 2021

We’ve decided to do more exploring of LA as we wait this pandemic out. (We have nothing else to do!) Last night we explored Echo Park ... we did a food crawl (empanadas and taco trucks and farmers market snacks and açaí bowls and cinnamon buns) and we wandered into book stores and sneaker shops and cursed our luck at the thrift store closing just as we arrived. Then we hit up this little spot across town for the ‘gram. What neighborhood should we explore next? View . . .

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Life Lately

January 18, 2021

Hone and happy with the smell of beach bonfire in our hair. Making the most of warm winter days View this post on Instagram   A post shared by Kristen Howerton (@kristenhowerton) Almost a year into learning to do everyone’s hair in this house, including my own very white roots, and my bathroom looks like I am ready to open a salon. View this post on . . .

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Life Lately

January 11, 2021

Marker earrings are this season’s hottest dual-purpose accessory. @indiahowerton   Free this weekend HMU Rioters attempting to overthrow our democracy have breached the capital & are roaming the halls and in the galley, and they are not being arrested. They are being treated like children on a school field trip. They are taking photos and wandering around. They are standing at the podium as police just stand there. Meanwhile my kids and I were met with riot gear at a . . .

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I Hate the Mom That Covid Has Made Me (My NY Times Op-Ed on Parenting)

December 30, 2020

One recent Thursday, I sent my 14- and 15-year-old boys off to the skate park near our house. I’m a parent who values a childhood lived outdoors. To that end, I’ve been a fairly free-range mom with my four kids, but as they left for the park, I gave them a warning that still feels foreign, even eight months into this pandemic. “Leave your masks on!” They both gave a nod of agreement and were off. In the beforetime, rather than a mask reminder, I would have told them when I expected them home, . . .

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Life Lately: Holiday 2020 Edition

December 28, 2020

Happy 16th to my tall, talented, kind, hilarious, loyal, empathetic, athletic, sarcastic, and adventurous son. @jaftahowerton you have weathered the storms of a hard year with humor and hard work (and a killer GPA !) You are an amazing big brother and friend and you are so loved. I am so proud of the young man you are becoming and can’t wait to see what the future holds. View this post on Instagram   A post shared by . . .

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Life Lately

November 16, 2020

  Crowding the #millionmagamarch feed with pancakes is petty goals. Hit like to push this to the top.       This was fun on twitter. Let's try it here. I'll go first: one-piece swimsuits, guys in skinny jeans and deep v-necks, Dollywood, spanking your kids in 2020, smoking hot wives, marriage conferences, boho fedoras . . . Trying to catch a ride on the wind with a skateboard and an umbrella. 😍😍   So the $500 used Subzero I found on Craigslist just . . .

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· Family, Life Lately

Life Lately

November 2, 2020

Getting our early holiday vibes on! We got to be part of a listening party for Straight No Chaser’s new Christmas album. I think this will be on heavy rotation in our house. Thank you @alphamom! (And @tiffstreats for the cookies!) @sncmusic #SocialChristmasing 👹 Everyone calm down. Jason is a white woman. Draco + Jojo Why does Karis look like a pumpkin murderer? Monday!! Have you joined our parenting in a pandemic support group? Come join us! It's a safe spot to talk, vent, and . . .

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