big brother, little princess
I was going through photos on my computer this morning, editing out the mass amounts of dud pictures I’ve taken. I was just about to delete this photo I captured at Jafta’s jog-a-thon a few weeks ago, because before I cropped it, it was just a random crowd shot without a real focus. But then I squinted and noticed that Jafta and Karis were in the middle of the shot. Karis had insisted on wearing a princess costume that morning. She was very excited to cheer Jafta . . .
what I want you to know: being a birthmom
What I Want You to Know is a series of reader submissions. It is an attempt to allow people to tell their personal stories, in the hopes of bringing greater compassion to the unique issues each of us face. If you would like to submit a story to this series, click here. Today’s guest post is by LeAnn. What I want you to know about being a birthmother? It hurts. Not the physical kind of pain, although that can happen if I stress out to much, but it hurts mentally and emotionally. . . .
fuzzy on the details
The last couple weeks have been in full-on crisis mode for our family. It seems like every single day, I think, “Oh, this will just be a regular day”, and then, BAM! Some new chaos is thrown in my lap. It doesn’t help that our last babysitter gave her notice a few weeks ago and our new gal can’t do full-time until next month, so I am trying to do 20+ hours of work every week with 10 hours of childcare. And then, we’ve been hit with health issues, insurance drama, tax mayhem . . . . .
how has social media changed your relationships?
I go to a lot of conferences – sometimes for blogging, sometimes for orphan care issues. But I’ve noticed a pattern. In the days before I leave, I always do the following: get weepy about leaving my children spend about 46 hours in activities designed to procrastinate packing have a wardrobe crisis and try on every outfit I own spend 13 minutes actually packing write a post crowd-sourcing for whatever topic I’m speaking on So, guess what this post is gonna be . . .
veggies for the picky eater
India is my picky eater. She just doesn’t do veggies. This is the only way I can get her to eat anything green. Spinach in the smoothie. I swear . . . it’s like magic. They never notice. It’s also an easy way to get flax seed in. Because my girl is not about to eat a fish-oil supplement. But a sweet, slushie drink? That she will do. Last year, a couple of our readers at Mama Manifesto asked us to post some smoothie recipes beyond the typical . . .
milestones
We’ve hit a few milestones in the past month. 1. I have officially “pulled the car over” for each of my children. Karis’s purposeful and high-pitched screaming on the way home from school pickup on Monday earned her that honor. 2. Jafta is officially too big to be carried. At 70 pounds, I can no longer lift him. I have some very sad feelings about that, and I regularly grab him and threaten to squash him back into a baby . . . and then squeeze him tight. I swear, . . .
what I want you to know: being 33 and single
What I Want You to Know is a series of reader submissions. It is an attempt to allow people to tell their personal stories, in the hopes of bringing greater compassion to the unique issues each of us face. If you would like to submit a story to this series, click here. Today’s guest post is by an anonymous reader. My name is Sarah. I am 33 and single. I will be 34 in a few months. This was not my plan. My plan was to meet my husband in college, get married at 25, have my first child at . . .
how do they get along?
I saw a play recently called In Mother Words, and it was a series of vignettes about motherhood. One of the short stories was about a mom who had a biological son and a daughter adopted from China, and she expressed her annoyance at how many people, upon meeting her family, eye her children and ask, “So how do they get along?” I found this portion of the play (and this character’s sassy response to those questions) particularly hilarious because I get that question all the time. And . . .
in search of a model for orphan care
From time to time, I will get an email from someone asking me for advice about running a children’s home or an orphanage. While I have a background in psychology and a definitive heart for orphans, I really can’t claim any expertise on best practice. I certainly have opinions, and there is a lot of research available that suggests some of the negative effects of institutional life. But in terms of finding the elusive handbook for doing it well? I don’t know that it’s out . . .
two ways to make a difference today
A purchase of Punjammis (sari-inspired pajamas) gives financial empowerment to women who are redeeming their lives from the sex trade in India. (My daughter and I got to be models for their latest campaign. Fortunately this gig went better than the last time she tried modeling). This company was founded by friends of mine and I love what they are doing for women in India. I also love their cozy pajamas and I think you will, too. A new CD of Lullabies from The . . .
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