So I’ve been meaning to write about Jafta’s birthday. It was way back in December. But it was dragged out nearly as long as it took me to write this post. Jafta’s birthday is a couple days after Christmas . . . an unfortunate date for a birthday (speaking as someone with a birthday in that same week). School is out, everyone is on vacation, and if any friends are around to come to a hastily-planned party, the chances are good that your gift is going to be a regifted reject . . .
the blog has been “made”
So . . . I sometimes mention that I work as an adjunct professor? I have always tried to keep my online life separate from that role. I work in the grad psych department, and even though I still have the inevitable embarrassing moments in the class, I at least want to create the illusion that I am a professional. Because of that, I’ve hoped my social media stuff would go unnoticed - and for many years it has. Because writing about your foibles online may not give you the . . .
negotiating parenting roles after divorce
The last two weeks in a row, the questions I have tackled in my advice column at OCRegister.com have revolved around divorce, and issues of co-parenting. When I was working as a family therapist, I always had a soft spot for blended families. I think a part of that is because, from my own life experience, I understand that life, and family, does not always look the way we thought it would. Family can be messy. Adoption can be messy. Divorce is almost always . . .
the work-at-home mom: worst of both worlds?
Before I had kids, I thought that being a work-at-home mom would be the ideal scenario. It seemed like the best of both worlds: I could continue doing work that felt meaningful to me, and I could also be the one to care for my kids. I loved the idea of working for myself, having flexibility with my schedule, and avoiding the dreaded daycare situation. I’ve been a mom for five years now, and in that time I have morphed my professional roles into a work-at-home job I assumed . . .
public service announcement
I like both of these products. One does nice things for my hair. The other is good for business time. The bottles look very similar in the medicine cabinet. Especially when you are tired. And that’s all I’m gonna say. Edited to add: Mark would like you to know that it was a hair malfunction, and not . . . ahem . . . something else. . . .
idea camp for orphans
I am going to be speaking at The Idea Camp-Orphan Care next month. They have been releasing the workshop topics all week and I am really excited to be a part of this, for a couple of reasons. First, I like the philosophical model of the Idea Camp. It is a post-modern exploration of topics, with a focus on the participants. The Idea Camp functions under the premise that the crowd is collectively smarter than any one speaker. I am really interested to see how such a collaborative . . .
Hair: The Musical
I had a chance to see the musical Hair this weekend at the newly dubbed Segerstrom Center for the Arts (formerly Orange County Performing Arts Center). Here is a snippet of the review I wrote for Technorati’s BlogCritics. You can read the rest at the original post. Hair has always been one of my favorite shows. However, it has been off of my radar for a few years, and its genius was forgotten in favor of some of the newer shows (Next to Normal! Spring Awakening! Fela!) . . .
what I want you to know: hyperemesis
What I Want You to Know is a series of reader submissions. It is an attempt to allow people to tell their personal stories, in the hopes of bringing greater compassion to the unique issues each of us face. If you would like to submit a story, email me. Today’s story was written by Amanda of Our Wee Family. Looking through my 3-year-old’s baby box last week, I held his first outfit, first shoes and first paci with wonderment and warmth. These keepsakes bring back joyous . . .
but now to live the life
I love reading the blogs of families who have answered the call to a radical lifestyle of service. In part, I think that it is a reminder of what I aspire to . . . and in part because I like to live vicariously through the people who have made such decisions because, in truth, it scares the crap out of me. I read the writings of women like Tara, Jamie, and Heather with equal parts conviction, inspiration, and fear. My friend Sarah now joins their ranks, having moved her family of . . .
how to solve a brain freeze (a picture tutorial)
I am in Nashville, getting my bliss on at Blissdom. The kids are hanging with dad, learning important skills like how to rid yourself of a brain freeze. I think these pictures adequately describe each of their personalities. I miss them. But man, I’m having fun. . . .
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