Short shorts are all the rage this season. They are paired with flowing tops, they are deconstructed and ripped, and they are short enough to reveal both pocket linings and butt cheeks. I have seen them sported everywhere from the beach to Disneyland to my local taco stand, and no doubt it is What The Kids Are Wearing These Days. But not all fashion trends have to be observed. And I’m not sure this one should be. Of course, everyone is free to wear what they want. But can I make some humble suggestions of things to consider before you pop on those micro-shorts and head out the door?
1. Have you really looked at yourself in the mirror from behind? This is important. I fear that there are some women who may not even realize that the fleshy circular part of their ass is showing as they walk in these short shorts. Informed consent, ladies. Do you really want your butt cheeks to be showing? If not, you better make sure you’ve got a full length mirror and have inspected from all angles.
2, Are you going somewhere that people will be eating? Because some of you are showing the same amount of surface area that would touch a toilet seat. If you are walking into a restaurant and the fabric of your shorts ends less than two inches from where you poop, I’m gonna need you to sit on a towel for hygiene reasons. I do not want to sit in a chair that was previously occupied by someone who’s crotch fabric covers less square inches than a maxi-pad.
4. Have you inspected how things look with a full range of motion? I’m not just talking a quick glance over your shoulder as you look in the mirror at your cute butt. Have you seen how things look when you walk? When you bend down? When you sit? When someone is sitting directly across from you? Again, give yourself the gift of information before you give it to the rest of the world.
5. Do you currently have butt acne? No need to be ashamed. It’s a normal phenomenon. But I do sometimes wonder, when I’m walking behind girls in short shorts and an unfortunate pimple flare up in the folds of their cheeks, if they have any idea what is going on back there. It might be time to put things away and use a little BP wash for a few days.
6. Do you have any hair that needs to be groomed? I should not have to explain this one. But observational experience tells me I do. In addition to looking at a full-length mirror, you might also want to check things out in full sun. Even blonde hair glistens. Enough said.
7. Are you comfortable with people stealthily taking your photo to post it on Instagram? Because that is going to happen. It might be some Gen-X moms because we they want to mock you to our their friends. Or it might be teenaged boys, for other reasons. But know that wearing shorts that show your ass will result in approximately 4-7 posts of your ass to Instagram, depending on the amount of cheek showing.
These are just some little considerations to ponder before you hit the world in your hotpant shorts. But if you look at the list and still feel confident about showing the world your half-moon underside, then go for it! We won’t judge you.*
Sarah says
Yes. And, I have seen a few cheek – revealing rompers, which have an added wind factor that should be considered. I told my girls, "just so you know, you will never be allowed to show your butt cheeks on purpose." They said, "gross." I just wanted it to be stated so that they could never say, "you never said…" Thank you for your PSA.
I need to know how you know …
Exposed butt cheek shorts are a sartorial choice I really disagree with but let's spend some energy teaching people not to surreptitiously take photos of strangers. It happened to a friend of mine recently which is why I'm having trouble laughing about this part of the joke today.
Omg! I'm dying laughing! To each their own but the part about the crotch fabric being smaller than a maxi pad and having to sit on a towel….hahaha! I'm so sharing
Omg! I'm dying laughing! To each their own but the part about the crotch fabric being smaller than a maxi pad and having to sit on a towel….hahaha! I'm so sharing