You Know You’re An Adoptive Parent IF…
1. The fact that there are 143 million children without a parent to kiss them goodnight has made you lose sleep.
2. You realize DNA has nothing to do with love & family.
3. You can’t watch Adoption Stories on TLC without tears.
4. The fact that, if 7% of Christians adopted 1 child there would be no orphans in the world, is convicting to you.
5. You spend free time surfing blogs about families who’ve experienced the blessing of adoption.
6. It drives you crazy when people ask you about adopted child’s “real” parents.
7. You were “pregnant” with your adoptive children longer than it takes an elephant to give birth (2 years!)
8. You’d no idea how you’d afford to adopt, but stepped out in faith anyway, knowing He’d provide (He did!)
9. You’ve taken an airplane half-way around the world to meet your child
10. You believe God’s heart is for adoption.
11. You realize that welcoming a child into your heart & family is one of the most important legacies you could ever leave on this earth.
12. You know what the word “Dossier” means & you can actually pronounce it correctly!
13. You’ve welcomed a social worker into the most private parts of your life.
14. You shudder when people say your child’s so lucky that you adopted them, knowing full well you’re the blessed one to have him or her in your life.
*Borrowed from http://theboysadoption.blogspot.com/ (2/14/08)
Anonymous says
Thanks for writing an inspirational blog. I would add, you know you are an adoptive parent if: You pray for children all over the world.
You give to organizations that help children.
You feel the pain of children who grow-up without unconditional love.
You know that love has nothing to do with biology, or race….I hope people will follow your example, thanks…EL
I was reading your blog about your adoption. I have a question about donating airline miles. How can I e-mail you.
Jon M.
K-You are amazing and I love your heart!!
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ohmydang. I'm in the middle of reading your journey with Jafka's adoption because my husband & I are about to enter the whole "foster to adopt" phase. This post? Resonates deeply. Thank you for posting – even though it's a couple years old. 🙂