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July 6, 2020

 

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The culmination of Kembe’s scheme from my last post. I approve of none of this but he’s quite proud.

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Fireworks scheming. Also please notice his #ootd: an authentic vintage army onesie and liquor store shoes. @kembehowerton #rompertime

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I’m talking adoption with my fellow adoptive mom (and adoptee herself) @jillianlauren. We’ve been friends for a long time and both adopted internationally and also from foster care. We get little misty reading parts of our memoirs about bringing our boys home, and talk through what we’ve learned about love (and about ourselves) from the experience.

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She is not using her tiny hands for tiktok she’s using them for PINTEREST. GOSH.

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Kembe’s outfit of the day … yellow with a splash of checkers. #taxivibes

I found the answers to these questions really fascinating. I will share where we are at. I don’t think quarantine is over. I do believe that my state reopened too early, and that is proving to be clear as we watch our case numbers and hospitalizations spiking. So we are still mostly at home except for essential excursions or trips to get out in nature. The kids have occasional, outdoor, distanced playdates with a very small group of other kids whose families are also mostly quarantined. The boys skate around town with masks. They all swim and ride bikes. We won’t be doing camps this summer. I support mask mandates because the science is that it reduces spread, and I do it for others as well as for myself. Unless a readily available treatment option emerges we will likely do distance learning from home next year (our school district is hopefully making it an option.) I don’t love any of this. I don’t love how it’s affecting my kids or my own stress levels and sleep. But we have a lot of talks about how our behavior right now is for the good of everyone, and how collective responsibility is one of our values. We aren’t “living in fear”, we are making active choices informed by science and for the good of those around us. I know some of this is charged and some of it is political, and that speaking some of my own values can make others feel shamed. That’s not my intent … just sharing what is driving our decision-making right now.

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I’m talking with fellow therapist @lisa.damour about raising preteens and teens, how to promote empathy and self-esteem while also promoting resilience, and what the pandemic is doing to an already stressed-out generation. You can order Lisa’s book Under Pressure here: https://amzn.to/2BQMb3n and Untangled here: https://amzn.to/389mHKR. And you can order Rage Against the Minivan here: https://biglink.to/RATM.

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Karis is in the “paint everything black” phase of her emo artist journey.

Can we have both please.

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Eugene Cho and I are talking about how to have a civil dialogue about politics, the polarization of politic parties, and the problem with Christians aligning with a political party over their moral convictions. You can find @eugenecho’s book, Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian’s Guide to Engaging Politics, at this link: https://amzn.to/37SMlmU. You can find Rage Against the Minivan here: https://biglink.to/RATM. And you can hear about our trip to Iraq and Lebanon here: https://www.worldvision.org/refugees-news-stories/podcast-blogger-kristen-howerton

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Hi, I’m Kristen. I’m a mom of four kids via birth and adoption and a writer living in Southern California. Read More.

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